My boyfriend has an alterego, a young woman, this toy allows her to explore strap-ons hiding and stimulating the obvious extra appendage. I get my woman and he gets to feel like one. The only reason this does not get a 5 is that it is very wide and seems longer than 6 inches so can be a little tough to accommodate for smaller women. It would also be great if there were a sexy strap-on belt available to hide the rather plain white straps and hold on to the vibrator controller